Nicole, your posts are fine, this is after all the only place where we vent out, and you know what if a WAH says something, then it is absolutely wrong so go on writing. Have you read up the MLC forum posts, especially the homework and stickies there, I do not remember how old your H is but I could apply a lot of what i read there to your sitch and the consensus is MLC could last 3 to 7 years. You could possibly figure out what stage he may be in right now, although i felt in my sitch if WAH is in MLC a lot of these stages are overlapping for him or maybe I still need to understand it better. Try this too thestagesandlessonsofmidlife.org, i could not find the threads here but was able to find it online.