LW, the stress vs depression pointed out by V actually throws a lot of light to all our sitches. What we see in the WAS is unrest from within, it is confusion and instability that probably manifests itself in some form of feeling extremely low. It could also be that mentally you have let go more than you realize and your subconscious is registering the flaws in her appearance that you originally would have not noticed when you were attached to her. I am glad that the T with S was sorted out, it was stressing me out to read that it might be negatively impacting your S. Hope your S feels better about how he wants to proceed with his R with his mother. - Arshi