Wife is not who I married...Pls Help Pt 4

[mtb1981]

I have done my best to this point to let W go and detach. At this point I think I feel more pity than anything for my W. I am sad that she is not herself- that she is not happy. I am aware that she has chosen this path and that she must venture on this journey alone.

This is not a bad place to be, because everything you said is true. It's where I find myself most days. It's a step in the right direction imo. I also like to remind myself that where I am now is better than I was a couple months ago and not as good as it will be a couple months from now. Just keep on keeping on...

Also, sounds like you and S had an amazing day. Good for you. Baseball games are always fun, burgers are pretty awesome too, and good times with loved ones are priceless...