Was thinking along the same lines MarvinF. If short-term it helps things, long-term it may damage chances at Recon.

Yesterday, she came by the house when I wasn't around and did three loads of laundry, including mine. Usually she does the kids and lays mine out to fold, which I find somewhat childish and amusing. She cleaned the floors and pruned a few dying indoor house plants. Like I mentioned before, when she does nice things like this I await for some spew to follow shortly. So far nothing, yet, but all of these nice gestures still bewilder me, coming from someone who keeps saying she wants D.


M: 42
W: 39
Married: 13 Together: 18
Kids:10,8
BD 1: 2/2013
Reconciled: 9/2013
BD 2: 10/2017
Separation from MH: 12/2017