Originally Posted By: kml
He' also thinks I'm the bees knees.


The "Bee's Knees?" Um, showing your age there a bit with that one KML.

You seem to be to be a strong personality. From all I can tell, he is a push-over. If you'd ask him to jump he'd respond "how high?" Am I getting this right? Now, that just may mean you both compliment each other. If you enjoy wearing the pants in the R, you may have your guy. But do you? I guess I'm not so sure about that.

I think it's great you are giving this a chance. I don't want you to be overly cautious, but I also would hope you're not giving up too much of what you want and need. He's not likely to change. You've already told him, sometimes rather clearly, that you need him to slow down - yet he can't. It's who he is and what he does. If that's okay with you, then keep going. I just would not expect him to change. I get the strong feeling that what you are seeing is the real him. Trust your gut as you move forward. It's great to have someone that is clearly totally into you. Something tells me you'd like a little more of a challenge than that?


DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D