Thanks, mtb1981.

I know, I know. I did call and ask if she fed the dog. Our dog is old and not in good health and will probably die soon. I tell you this to understand that the call was not out of place.
W answered the phone immediately which is a good sign.

Posting here was the right move.

Occasional suspicion is expected and typical. What I do with it is up to me.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.