So I'm in a bit of a crossroads here. I just went to breakfast with W. Both Ds didn't want to go. It was pleasant, nothing special. But immediately after returning W knocks on my MBR door and says she is running down to her office to get some paperwork ready because a new hire is coming on in the morning. I replied "Okay". I sometimes think she does these things to restore trust. Ws office is only like 3 miles away. She has a work friendship with a younger guy that is not her type but gets brought up too often in stories. I have expressed concern and W has assured me that there is nothing inappropriate. It is a small office and who knows?
So my dilemma, Do I drive down there and look for her car at the office? Most of the time I don't feel suspicious, but every now and then...
When a bond of trust has been abused and the proper steps to repair the damage are not taken, I expect this will continue to haunt me.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.