My wife's midlife crisis

[Gordie]

Faceman

If you have time on your hands read my threads

My w spent over a year acting in these contradictory ways which rationally make no sense

It is not a choice between hope and letting go it is believing and hoping that the best path to reconciliation is letting go

The more we try not to let them go the more trapped that they feel which you also see in the distance and pursuit dynamics

Stay strong and work on finding your own center which is no longer your w