B mine did the same thing and I have 2 young daughters. I highly doubt she has done any self reflection or has took a look at her part in the R and what she could have changed. My Ew told a family friend that she knows I will find someone that will treat me better than she did. I thought to myself if you treated me bad why did you not change? You can not believe anything they say and I am living proof you will find happiness and love again. When my ew was done she was done and had no desire to attempt to save anything. Just keep improving yourself and over time, as you get stronger, your desire to be with her will become less and less.