B- My W told me I got too grey and that is why she wanted out. They are just excuses and it is likely she does not even know the reason why she feels the way she does. Most everyone here does some sort of temp check early on. I did mine around the 1.5 mth mark and I remember M doing the same. D is likely so come to terms with it ASAP but keep moving forward and do things for yourself. Go back to dbing and turn yourself into an ass kicking machine!