You guys are right. In our conversations, he mentioned how his exW made him feel like less of a man because she was such an earner and his contributions often went overlooked. I understand wanting to feel like "the man" and I will let him come to me. He did really enjoy wining and dining me, and I enjoyed it as well.
I was telling him about a light bulb that is out in my house but I am 2 inches too short to change it. He said he would change it for me:). Good sign I would guess.
I do need to slow my roll and let him come to me. As much as I would like to invite him for dinner, he can come to me. Tonight he has a "manBBQ" at a coworker's house where only men are allowed. I am going to have some apps and drinks with a friend at a nice steakhouse in the area where there is outdoor seating. The weather is gorgeous here today. 70's, sun, and finally, no humidity!
And to be mentioned. D10's phone screen cracked again after her dad got it fixed. She did drop it, but it has a good case, and it shouldn't have cracked that easily. She is flipping the F out. Almost shaking at how her dad is going to react. She texted her stepmother and she said to not even tell him I am so sad my daughter is so fearful of her father's reactions. I just hate him sometimes.
