We are nogotiating over the kids as she is moving out in the next few weeks to rental. She can only have specific days as she does shift work. I dont want the kids to get too mixed up in this.

She didnt go out after tonight as when we were arguing, i mentioned that D12 was feeling neglected and was chasing W around the house asking is she ok and asking for hugs.

She was ok later on making dinner for us all and speaking to me. Then she goes to bed and ignores me. Shes a nut job. Lol.

I know the kids would prefer me, but she brings up that we should do what is best for the kids.

Shes been packing tonight again, she comes downstairs and cries about leaving sentimental things behind that the kids made and asked me not to throw them away. I said i would never do that, she was sobbing for about 20 minutes after.