RR- V thanks for the advice

Hey V - what if S is comfortable with his T ? How do I proceed?

Those that don't do the congruence in their life, truly age. It creates enormous dissonance.

It removes bloom and attractiveness.

Is this a sign of her depression or is it a sign defense mechanism on my behalf to distance myself? Or is it both? Please explain?

M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18