Welp. Big surprise, no response, no drop off, no call. I am not the least bit surprised. I have to be honest, I really think he wanted me to come up there at his lunch time, and when I didn't jump at the chance and I also responded later, I think it bothered him. Whenever he doesn't respond to a text, it's bc he is upset. He couldn't really let me know that he's upset bc I responded perfectly in saying "whatever is easier for him".
I'm NOT going to text him asking either. This is typical of him wanting some sort of reaction from me. I put the no contact into place last weekend and I'm sticking to it. I only respond to him if he calls or texts. Another helpful thing is, I know he will give me the money. He's not shady like that so i really don't need to be blowing his phone up, it will make me look to needy and aggressive.
I feel in my bones that he's been thinking more about it.
Reading other people's situations helps me identify what I need to do in mine. Also helps me stay accountable.
