I'm not sure if it's quite to that level, but he really does have a point.
I know it's hard but you really need to start backing off from her. You are very much enabling her to be this way, and in turn hurting yourself. She throws that anxiety issue up quite a bit and you eat it up. A little Added note - we all have anxiety on here! Lol. Why do you think we are here?
I hate to say this - but the put the daughter to bed thing, you really should have taken my advice, "dang, I wish I could but I got to get going".
Instead you stayed there for a while, walked the dog, and hung out in her room for a few minutes hoping that she would invite you to stay.
I get it. I totally do. I wish mine would be as open as your. And he was like 6 weeks ago. But I'm not playing friends with him. This isn't he gets to walk away and still have a go to when he's bored across town. And neither should that be for you.
You need to start backing off because 3 months will be here soon and you will have to deal with the not paying for her apartment like the agreement. And I hate to say it, but it's almost like she's clinging to you a lil bc the move is still new. When she finds friends she will start distancing herself and you will be wondering why.
