I ended up sending him a text and it just went really bad. I felt like he was missing the picture.
He seemed to focus on the fact that i messed up by sitting on the bench which he claimed was 30 feet away, i estimated at 10 feet instead of waiting for him, that i didnt work as a helpful member of the team with him because i asked the wrong people for directions...
He didnt hear me saying that i dont want to argue and justify myself for sitting on a bench or asking the wrong for directions.. that the point was that he talked down to me.
I felt like he was deflecting and changing the argument to the things that upset him enough to get snarky.
I think at 10 months on a romantic trip, to get snarky and annoyed with me is a huge red flag.
