So we went to the theatre last night. While driving there, the W says i have to pay toeards transfering one of the cars to her. I say no, so she starts off again, with the kids in the car. D12 ask us to stop, so i say ill pay towards it, to shut W up.
Then this morning, i remember she saves money for xmas, so i ask her for half of it, as it is only fair. Boom, she goes mental, she goes at everything and i cant hold back either. This goes on for about 15 minutes. She pushes me and tries to accuse me of being agressive, but i stepped back and she came towards me. I just didnt move back from my stance. She is threatening to see a lawyer as she was leaving.
She was also saying she cannot stand being in the house with me and dreads coming home, so she goes to OM house.
Dont know why, i stay out of her way, im pleasant, i play with the kids, i cook food for both of us. If im downstairs, she stays in her room, but she could go upstairs with S10. But she doesnt. If im upstairs, she watch tv with d12. She has not been bying food for the house, which was agreed.
She said that i had controlled her for 14 years and now that she is standing up to me, that i dont like it. Dont know how i was controlling, she was in charge of all the finances, holidays and other stuff and fads she went through. I worked full time while she stayed in thd house and brought up the kids..
She says she is moving out in a week, im quite looking forward to her going.
