Hi friends, I have not posted on here in a few months, but for some reason I'm drawn here tonight, just to see how things are going, and if any of my "saviors" are still here. This forum literally saved my life, in January 2017, and continued to be my lifeline for months. I'd come here daily, multiple times, just to have someone to talk to, and there is always someone here. What I'd say to you newcomers is this- things look hopeless, and maybe the relationship/marriage is...... but there is a new YOU out there, if you can swim to the other side. THIS FORUM WILL HELP YOU GET THERE. Your life may not look the way it used to, and it probably never will again, because if you are here, then you've been crushed by THE NEWS, whatever fits in your situation. But take heart. A new story is being written for you. You just have to find the courage to face it, one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time. If any of my buddies are still out there and reading, please check in and give me updates. I miss you all, and will forever be thankful for stumbling into this place, and for your support in getting me through the worst time in my life.
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton