Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Jlh]

Thanks Anotherstander and Arsh, I appreciate you both giving input and keeping me in line when I feel weak and start to reattach to H.

I was talking to a neighbor friend and she thinks that I'm being too nice to H and doesn't understand the divorcebusting. I told her that I feel in my gut that he is lost, in grief and made some bad decisions and I am willing to wait out this foggy maze of his. She told me I should just go get myself laid to make myself feel better and to show him how Karma is a bitch. I basically ran in the house and slammed the door... politely of course, lol! She had a bitter divorce of her own and her talk wasn't helpful. She's a divorce mediator as well so I had a few questions for her but she let her own opinions take over.