Can I really do this #4

[Dtrmned]

AS, Absolutely. ZERO expectations other than good food, good wine, a good massage and relaxation. I would be happy to just get away sit by the pool or hang in the room and read a book. I'd even be up for just pausing our situation for the couple of days and just "hanging" together, again with no expectations before, during or after. I've often said that any couple can be happy on a beach in Tahiti so "happy vacation time" means absolutely nothing when you have to come back to reality afterwards.

The offer has been made. I'll give her a couple of days and follow up with her if she hasn't said anything.

At present, I'm just looking at it as it is. Use it or lose it. We get away from the kids, get a massage and don't have to do dishes or clean! Even if we weren't married when you have kids that sounds relaxing!