Oh. No no. Don't miss understand, he didn't ask me to lunch. I didn't take it that way. He said I could come get it at his lunch time.

And Another Stsnder, I totally see where you are coming from. Or can see why you see that. She befreuended me when he moved out the first time. Called me immediately, offered to be a friend during that crazy time. She continually kicked up drama for me. Would always call and tell me negative stuff about him during that time. She mostly would talk about her issues with the family. I think she was using me to get to the family. When he came back, he knew she had been up to no good and told me that he did not appreciate her behavior. Or all the drama it caused. Example-while in labor, in labor, she was texting me about pictures his mother had posted of her child on facebook. Now mind you, I was in the hospital for two days having my son, a rough time, but she was more focused on getting me to talk trash. I ignored it. She kept going for the next couple of days. I ignored it. Obviously bc I just had a child. She became upset with me then. I knew that I would have to back off from her to maintain my relationship.