JS, one of Sandi's rules is to not plan a vaca. AS is more experienced at this so I would follow his advice. If I won a short vaca right now, the way WAH is, a trip is not going to change his mind. I would find the couple I love and respect the most and offer it to them as a gift for all the things they have done for me and I havent thanked enough. Could be your parents, other family or friends, we all know we have those in our lives.