When me and him split during my pregnancy, she befriended me immediately. Everyone was upset, not at me but at her bc they knew that she would cause drama. Well, she did. When me and him reconnected when the. Any was born I was focused on him and did not bother with her anymore. No words were spoken, but she blocked me on social media etc.
I'm curious why you got so much closer to her when you split up and then completely cut her off when you got back together? That's strange behavior on your part. Sounds like you were just using her to keep a lifeline to him.
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Last night, out of nowhere she send me a very nasty and rude text. I IGNORED IT.Basically calling me out of my name and saying I'm a horrible person. I was instantly very mad. I had never told things that she said, but my boyfriend knew she was fillling my head with crap. But, I never spilled. I did finally confess a few things but I had said at the time we needed to move on, no more family drama. So, when reading this text with her going off and belittling me, I came unglued. I was driving and I tried to call his sister. I ended up going to her apartment to calm me down. I called the sister in law and told her "nicely" what I felt and we exchanged some nasty text messages. I ended up confiding to his sister again how I felt about her brother and that I needed to move on. It's obvious that he has and that I look ridiculous.
Within and hour he was calling. He wasn't mad at all. To be honest, I think he was proud of me for sticking up for myself and him, and telling her off. He asked m to wait at the apartment so I did. It went well. Me him and his sister discussed the situation for a good bit and then we left. While I was at his sisters, his brother was in the phone with him and my boyfriend was defending me saying "she called her looking for something, so she is getting it". He also said that my loyalty has always been for him and she should have never confused that.
Next time do the above. You are curtailing the drama just like someone trying to put out a fire with gasoline.
