Re-read the LRT section of DR, especially the part where MWD describes what to do if the spouse begins to show some interest in spending some time with you.
M: 40 W: 37 T: 20 MR: 13 S13, S9, S4 BD: 1/29/18 Sep: 4/23/18 (I moved out) 8/24/18 I come home, she moves out
If you want to get out of the hole, drop the shovel.
