Thanks DnJ and SBJ. I agree to proceed with caution. Also, best to be detached if that is something one is going to try, as if it does fan the flames, be prepared. While I was doing it, I expected backlash from her, but to my surprise, I feel like some of it sunk in with her and she did seem guilty. Hoping that it is her fog lifting a bit.


M: 42
W: 39
Married: 13 Together: 18
Kids:10,8
BD 1: 2/2013
Reconciled: 9/2013
BD 2: 10/2017
Separation from MH: 12/2017