Thanks for the good wishes RR Well I woke up today a little anxious. Maybe because of the session with the therapist. Maybe it is because I have not seen the W in about a month. I know it gives me the opportunity to show her the improved version of me(with lots more room for improvement).I have picked out some nice summer clothes and cologne. I want to appeal to as many of Ws senses. I know my focus is on detachment-listening and validating both S and W. I have played out some scenarios just to be prepared. Maybe she is using this as a opportunity to bridge R with S- That is Good! Maybe she is using this opportunity to create more distance- possibly talks about separation agreement and selling the house. Maybe she is using this opportunity to reach out to S and I to say she has thought about the sitch and wants to rebuild the family(just a thought). I know this is viewed as mind reading but I only want to be prepared of all outcomes. Prayers are always welcomed- Thanks!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
