Been a while, hope all of you are doing well.

So, like I have heard over and over, when a WAW get's remarried, she completely loses her mind. Mine petitioned the courts to grant her full custody (we were at 50/50), due to her lies and me not being able to afford a lawyer, she won. I now get my kids who were with me usually 60-70% of the time, for every other weekend, from 5pm Friday to 5pm Sunday. Luckily, I was able to retain one of the best divorce lawyers in the state (favor from a friend) and we go back in August to get things switched around.

I think the part that gets me the most, is this is just hurting my children. And the fact that the judge bought her bullcrap is just mind boggling to me. For years, I refused to hate her, I said I had pity for her, that I would never hate her. But this is the second time in 3 1/2 years that she has destroyed my family, so yeah, I can safely say I hate her.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016