I hear ya kml.

I am not in a good financial position. And that worried me regarding men accepting me or wanting to buuld a future with me.

Why would someone want to take me and my son on?

In my case. I honestly did nothing wrong. I have always been a saver. I went to school, earn a decent living in the health care profession. I have job stability. We just never built equity cause ex had some secret expensive habits.

Problem is where i live, you cant really survive on 1 income. Its even hard to survive on 2. Im in a situation similar to gingers in which i cant move away.
I need my parents to baby sit when i work and my son meeds a good school district. (You get extremes here) and with renting i am just throwing my money away. Housing keeps going up. Where i live starter homes are about 500 and in need ofntons of work. Taxes start at 10 grand a year.

I just feel stuck and depressed.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer