She's moving out in three days and packing all her things herself. What good would it do at this point for me to "pack up her stuff and kick her out"? I think I missed the boat on that opportunity, as I have with so many others. To do it now I think would just be picking a meaningless fight, like I am trying to make it seem like I am kicking her out when she clearly made the decision to leave all by herself. Legally I expect to be in a better position if it was her decision to leave anyway.
you are full of excuses... you will not get her back with your current mind set... in addition, i did not tell you to pack her things and kick her out... not literally... yes--you are passed that point... but you need to get there emotionally... figuratively...
you are in a place of timidity... weakness... and she knows it... if you want the slightest chance of saving your M, you need to move on... let her go... GAL... adelante, hombre...