Did, I get the sense that you need some reassurances and are not sure about your course of action, but you really are doing a great job. Keep it up! I think you understand pretty well what you should and should not do as you often ask a DB'ing question and then immediately answer it. You've been at this a long time so I'm sure you're getting a little frustrated over not seeing progress, but remember it's all about baby steps. And I think you are seeing those in your W reaching out to you more, especially at times she doesn't need to. And then coming over and hanging out for 30 minutes when most WAS's can't wait to leave. So keep the faith and keep doing what you're doing. Lovingly distance. Treat her with respect but don't pursue. You've got this!