Thanks Steve85. I've decided to not initiate myself so as to not pressure her in anyway. I'm still not sure that I shouldn't decline if she were to initiate again, just to get her thinking. I've always been one of those guys that is "ready" at any time, so me turning her down might just make her realize that she's losing a bit of control.


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Together 23 years
Married 21 years

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