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[Jlh]

I mentioned using the Divorce Busting method to my therapist and she just gave me a blank stare. I explained it a bit and got a look of disbelief. I mentioned how the book says that it takes time for the marriage to get better and I am trying to be patient while I distract and distance, etc. But at the same time I talk to her about my feelings to get them out.

She says that a few months is a long time to be in limbo and doesn't seem to agree with how it could take time for this to heal. I just don't know if I should find someone more "saving a marriage friendly" or listen to her "maybe it's time for a divorce" attitude.

I'm not ready to give in for a divorce, the bomb was dropped on me so fast that I'm still processing it. I'm just not sure if it's time for a therapist who is less divorce friendly.