I decided not to respomd to the text at all. If it is something important about the kids (her wanting to see them, take them overnight, etc.), she'll text back. I have been very clear with her that if she wants to discuss the kids that I am more than willing to communicate with her through text, but she needs to be specific. None of this "Call me, it's about the kids" because it usually ends up being something other than that. A simple text of "I would like to see the kids. Can we plan a time for me to pick them up?" is all she needs to do if that's what she wants. Like I said, I've discussed this with her before and been very clear...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019