New development today, I got up early and was cleaning my house and ex called crying. Asking me what I had done. Turns out om has told her to get her [censored] and get out his house. I was so happy. Not because I wanted her to jump in my arms. But because I new she was safe and my kids.
Now she didn't have anywhere to stay, so my kids are homeless. She wanted to borrow money for a hotel but I didn't want to give it to her. So I told her I was broke.
Nice Guy Syndrome. Tell her the truth.
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I offered her to stay at my house and I go to dads. She said I ain't coming back to that house. Which hurt, but ok.
Hell to the no! You don't move out to accommodate her.
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Later on I guess she figured out she had no where else to go so she is staying at my place tonight. Which is fine I'll be at work anyway. Kids will destroy my clean house, and that's ok too.
She told me not to bother her when I get home, and not to tell anyone she stayed there last night. Which really upset me.
I got nice guy syndrome and am a doormat.
Advice please
You softened in 2 seconds. She knows she's got you. And don't take this the wrong way b/c I am not there yet either.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
