Ok thanks for the input. So if she initiates the text ok to respond but I shouldnt initiate the nice texting... No more goodnight hope you sleep well texts.

Even though when I was doing that a few weeks ago she was responding with I have less anxiety etc.

I will continue to pull back and hope she pursues at some point.

Patience is tough for me Im so fed up and so doubtful she will come back. I know she is on dating sites because she told me about a guy who superliked her on Tinder yesterday... guy happens to be an ex of a girl Im friends with this girl loves the guy...

Had a feeling last night she was with a guy... but not in my control, nothing I can do.

I had a great time with my daughter watched fireworks in new neighborhood with a bunch of families. Had a few beers. If W was with us it would of been perfect but still a great night.


H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18