yes be patient. know that she's trying this on for size to see if it fits. no expectations. focus on you and the kids. i sound like a broken record.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver