Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

I just had a great long day with my son. Posting here's not how I really want my memories of today to end, so I'll keep this brief.

W spent the day at our house packing. She is moving out Saturday because she doesn't want to be with me. She has been saying she wanted to move out since last December. At this point I have only mildly confronted her about her affair, and since then our communication just deteriorated even more. We're both responsible for that breakdown in some ways. I'm finding it harder to speak to her since I'm really not all that interested in having any kind of relationship with her the more I have learned what she thinks of me and more of her behaviors and beliefs.

She's moving out in three days and packing all her things herself. What good would it do at this point for me to "pack up her stuff and kick her out"? I think I missed the boat on that opportunity, as I have with so many others. To do it now I think would just be picking a meaningless fight, like I am trying to make it seem like I am kicking her out when she clearly made the decision to leave all by herself. Legally I expect to be in a better position if it was her decision to leave anyway.