First thing; Gerda, thank you for stopping by(hug).
I'm doing fine, some friends suggest that I ask husband to move back. He moved out of our apartment now for 3 years. I don't think it's a good idea and I did follow anyone's opinion. I trust in my Lord, think He has the best plan and the most good timing when it talks about coming home of my husband. Secondly, Midlife crisis is a very unique issue, very few people could understand this journey I had with my husband. If not I had 4 years of experience of his mlc, I wouldn't believe such thing...
I learned from some old and new posts, I found my husband might be the 'passive aggressive' type of man. I didn't know this and I'm thinking he is not yet came out of the crisis so the passive aggressive feature is that obvious ? or he just had it hidden when we got married ? He is good at having his true emotions, it came from his family and how he was brought up... he had a dysfunctional family. If he comes out of the crisis successfully, will he be a happier man and more healthy mentally ?
