No worries, hongaku. I am dealing with something a little different than most on this board. Thanks for your input though...

V, I am not going To respond tonight. The kids are having fun swimming and so am I. We plan on watching the fireworks here in a bit. Not gonna let her bring us down. Part of me wonders if she has nothing to do for the holiday and decided that rattle our cage out of boredom. I guess I might look into telling her to email me from now on, but I am afraid that will just piss her off more. I would almost rather not poke the bear since she only makes contact once every couple of weeks. If this nonsense continues though, that is the route I will be taking...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...