I do this not by choice-S will not respond to W. Shall I just sit idle and have her text me? I did what I thought was right. S gets upset when dealing with W. I am only doing this so that it does not ruin his day. I have experienced the effects it has on him.
Alright, I'll bite. In the event that you really don't know. I will lay it out.
"I do this not by choice" Really? Who forced you? How about tell the W that you passed her message along and leave it at that?
"S gets upset when dealing with W." So what? Is he of healthy mental state? If so let him get upset. Stay out. It is not your job to not see that his day is not ruined. As altruistic as you may word this self-talk it is just controlling behavior. Let go, let God. Right?
I hope this helps. I really do.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
