but what about texts like I hope you and D3 sleep well? She sends me that one every night I have her..
I doubt newbies appreciate it when I tell them they use their children as an excuse to contact their spouse.......but it is exactly what happens. The WW contacting you to ask how the child is doing while she is with you........is keeping you emotionally attached. You initiating a good-night text is pursuit, anyway you look at it. Your little girl just happens to be your excuse to contact WW. This is not co-parenting, IMHO.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
