Your concern was her moving out and what she would tell her parents about you. You did not want to be the bad guy, and you want them to talk sense into her.

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What im concerned about with her getting ready to move is how she explains this to her parents. She will not move without telling them first. I know that she is going to trash me in that discussion, prob say im acting crazy thinking shes in an affair,,etc. Even though i know she is and have proof. Im thinking i should have a conversation with them first to tell them the truth and maybe they can have better luch getting thru to her. Even though my wife adores and respects her father, im afraid she might buck even more and walk away from everyone.


It went from that ^^^^^^ to concerns of suicide?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!