Dealing with suicide, harm etc and threats of it are very hard.

In many ways, drug addicts, alcoholics, gamblers, overeaters, smokers, anorexics, cutters are already in self destruct mode. It's a slower way to destroy the self.

Get out of the way.

When someone threatens suicide, self destruction then call their bluff. Say go ahead and I am calling the police to get you help. This is above my pay grade and it isn't appropriate for me to be involved.

If it's clear you will do this, fakers will stop bluffing and those in real danger will get help fast.

I am very clear in my mind on it and if needs be then a convo with her parents now may be in order. You can say if WW advises me that she will harm herself then I will get her location, ring the police and give them your number. I want her to have professional help if that happens and this is above my pay grade.
The children (Your brandchildren) come first.

Your handle F1 says it all.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW