You play the game and call her bluff. You created your own difficulty with this. Can't you see that by saying yes to having your son you are winning more time, setting precedent for the court?
All you have shown is that you aren't interested. If you were you would be biting her hand off to have more time with your child.
There are mums and dads here who would give their right arm for more time with their child and establish more parental rights.
Children come first.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
