Ok.... I feel the need to be harsh with you. Maybe some tough love. You feel for her bc of something she said in college? I get that you love her... I do. But your wife is going to move out so she can have the life that she wants to live right now, and not be under your microscope, or so she thinks. Do not kid yourself. She is running from anything tied to you. Let her. Do not try to stop her. Be strong for your kiddos. With their ages, I'd bet they already know what is up anyways. And if they do, they know what she is doing.
