W just contacted me via her sister to try to schedule times for me to see S this coming weekend, and W is demanding that I keep him an extra day to fit her schedule. I told her sister that I would be glad to, but we had agreed to stick to Fri 6pm - Sun 6pm, and I also agreed to meet up at a pd with monitored spaces. Of course, W doesn't want to do that, and now I'm being attacked for wanting to stick to a consistent schedule.
This discussion is still ongoing. I said I would keep S the extra day this weekend (despite my knowledge that she'll most likely go party Sunday night), but I expected her to be more consistent going forward.
She basically then said I can either do what she says, or I won't see S this weekend.
I restated that I would do it this weekend.
That wasn't good enough. Now she wants that schedule to be ongoing, and accused me of being inconsistent...even though I have only asked her once to change the schedule for Father's Day, and she declined.
I conceded that I would do it this weekend, and consider the future scheduling.
I feel like she's still going to object unless she gets her way completely.
I want to spend more time with S, but every time I have done that, she keeps demanding more and threatening to keep S away from me.
Do I stand my ground here, or do I give in? She has said "this isn't negotiable."
