Sandi2, I get what you are saying and i know nobody can help her. But the sitch is much more complicated than that. First im worried about my wifes stability. And concerned that once everything hits the fan she could do something to potentially harm herself. She hass expressed the idea before to my mother. She said that ahe contemplated suicide in college.
I dont want my wifes parents to blame me for anything. We all know how common it is for someone in mlc to blame their spouse. God forbid if something eved happened thag i would habe to live with thag on my conscience. Its really something i feel obligated to do. Not too mention ill hear from my inlaws the moment my wife informs them shes moving.
