Going the Distance (Saying ILY Pt. 6)

[Vanilla]

Steve I am leaving our discussion on victimhood for the moment as it would be useful on the abuse thread.

MTB WW is decompensating very quickly.

Let her. You only have anecdotal evidence that she is accusing you of things. That's not good at all.

Let her fall as far as she needs to. Let others report her for damaging stuff. It would be useful though to have short written statements that she us saying these things. Then it isn't hearsay but witnessed.

WW is what is known in the trade as a reactive compulsive. In layman speak bat shite crazy loco. She won't be able to hold her stuff together. And you aren't seeing her, she isn't visiting the house.

I do recommend keeping a daily diary.

She says you hit her? When exactly?

Oh you were in Tolado that day? Or shopping at Wal-Mart, here is the receipt!

Buy stuff even small items on debit or credit cards. Need gum? Pay by card? Cup of coffee? Card. Send an email, make a phone call (tower pin point), anything that proves where you are.

It's painful but gracious it works.

It's going to be ok, she already shot herself in one foot, now here comes the next bullet.

She is desperate for attention. All it takes now is OM finding another's WW to drop her knickers, then she is fully exposed. (So to speak)

It's so sad, but stay strong for your kids.

V