Wife asked for separation/divorce today after a trivial argument; she is seeing a lawyer very soon.

Her mind is made up. Its not going to change. She sees divorce/separation as the route to her happiness. It looks like 23yrs is over. Devastated.

I'm gonna read over the LRT and the ultra LRT but I've been doing most of those thing anyway;

Thanks Gerda for your insight; I think you are right. I expected too much too soon.