I'd make plans for you and the kids to attend the friends' thing. Leave it open to her if she goes or not. It will be good for the kids to be with other kids and doing kids things!
JS, also, please understand that the road to R is sometimes confusing. That is why GAL, 180s and detachment consistently is a must! Don't let your guard down. Very few WAWs/WWs wake up one morning and go "I was wrong! I want to R now!" Changing your mind on something is hard! Once a human makes a declaration that becomes their marching orders. To change them is to change who we are. So WAWs/WWs have to change slowly. You are seeing some of the sings of those subtle changes, but don't let it change what you are doing. Keep on keeping on.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
